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Clare's Law
Clare's Law - the Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme (DVDS).  Who was Clare? In short, Clare WOOD was a 36 year old female from...
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Aug 194 min read
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In court and being listened to
As a Police officer, i've given witness evidence in court a number of times now, it's daunting, sometimes I sat there waiting for days...
mynameislucy555
Jul 296 min read
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Thinking about safety
Prevention is better than cure as they say. I grew up in the 90s when people were raving all night, people chose drugs over alcohol,...
mynameislucy555
May 14 min read
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Hacked or tracked phones
I've seen a few posts on social media talking about checks you can make to see if your phone is being tracked. I've put the codes below,...
mynameislucy555
Mar 212 min read
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Cat calling
Cat calling as i've always known it or Street harassment is a form of harassment, primarily sexual harassment that consists of unwanted...
mynameislucy555
Mar 216 min read
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Strangulation signs and symptoms
Diagram shows the impact strangulation has on your mind and body I thought I would explain the word petechiae as this was a word I hadn't...
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Mar 183 min read
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He loves me, he loves me not
Getting help If you are in immediate danger or it's an emergency call 999. You can make an appointment to see your doctor, they will be...
mynameislucy555
Mar 172 min read
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Perpetrator Excuses
With all my pages, I write them and then post them, a few days later I read them and then alter them, re-write bits, add bits and still...
mynameislucy555
Mar 164 min read
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Harassment and stalking
It can be extremely unnerving, upsetting and scary when you think someone is paying you too much unwanted attention. I'll list a few...
mynameislucy555
Mar 143 min read
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Sexualised hula hooping
So yeah, sexualised hula hooping, what the heck is this about you may ask?. I'm off work with a chest infection and have spent way too...
mynameislucy555
Mar 147 min read
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I've been raped! - getting you help and support
I'm a female police officer, a wife, a mum and a survivor of rape, soon to be 50 and not looking forward to that idea at all. Three ex...
mynameislucy555
Jan 246 min read
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Strangulation .... a turn on, or death sentence?
I sound a bit extreme but let's face it, there's no safe way to strangle someone. I've read in articles and other sites that some people...
mynameislucy555
Nov 24, 20247 min read
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Injury Capture
This week I watched 'MY WIFE MY ABUSER CAPTURED ON CAMERA' on Netflix. A story of a man called Richard SPENCER who was subjected to 20...
mynameislucy555
Nov 7, 20244 min read
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Suicidal thoughts - i'm having a blip
I thought it was a good time to write about this because I feel like i've had a blip in my thought process over the past few weeks. Over...
mynameislucy555
Oct 17, 20246 min read
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Consent
What is consent? Let's call it the most important thing. I think consent has to be classed as the most important part of any happy and...
mynameislucy555
Oct 17, 20245 min read
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The cherry picker - ex number one
The older me is already disappointed and I've only just begun to think back over my memories. Sixteen and no experience with boys, I...
mynameislucy555
Sep 25, 20248 min read
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Think safety, safety, safety
First things first, let's address your safety. I want to address safety, it's so important that you keep yourself or anyone you know...
mynameislucy555
Sep 20, 20245 min read
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